You can't be hard on yourself for these were the cards that you were given

you: أنت
can't: لا يمكن
be: يكون
hard: شاق
on: على
yourself: نفسك
for: إلى
these: هؤلاء
were: كان
the: ال
cards: بطاقات
that: أن
you: أنت
were: كان
given: معطى